I need some advice. A little bit of counseling. From someone who is experienced with life, not prejudiced and who has looked at the grass from both sides. Who would listen to me without judging me or imposing his/her thoughts on me. I need to talk to a stranger... who would listen to me without emphasizing on what would be the best for my life.
Sometimes we need to optimize our life. Take some optimum decisions. You can't run after just one dimension. With time, priorities change. And there are several constraints that we have to keep in mind while optimizing our life.
Having this uneasy feeling again. Do I need a sign? Or do I need someone to tell me what to do? I need to realize the importance of few things with the given constraint of "no regret". Yes, at the end, I can't regret, no matter what. I've to take responsibility of the whole thing.
The more I'd talk to everyone the more the thoughts would be tangled. I just need some honest and simple suggestions. Need someone to bump into my life for a while and help me analyze through it. May be I need some signs. This morning I found these few lines of Steve Jobs in one of my senior bro's Facebook status.
You know, when you're looking for an answer and suddenly you get signs (if you consider them signs!) out of nowhere! May be it was a sign to tell me to follow my heart and intuition. I've always followed my intuitions. Most of the time they were correct. Can you really predict now, that the decision you are going to take now is going to end up in an amazing manner later? I guess it's the gut feeling that takes you ahead, closer to an amazing ending. With heart filled with doubt and to be filled wishes, can you really walk up to an amazing ending?
well you are right follow ur heart .. the more you talk to all the more confused it gets .. wht i beleive in is think.. and then give it another thought and then GO FOR IT with all heart and all will power.. majority of the times you will win ..
ReplyDeleteall the best and take care
Bikram's
may I apply to be a stranger? ;-D
ReplyDelete+100 for Steve Jobs quote. answer of your questions is on it.
first there are signs..
ReplyDeletethen there is instinct..
finally all it takes is guts..
I see you believe in the 'sign' - the supernatural causality! May be there is an alternative explanation: we only find what we want to see, rest we just ignore :)
ReplyDelete@ Bikram: Well, when the choice is between something you got to do and something you got to do, sometimes following heart neither helps! I guess the best way is wait and watch. :S
ReplyDelete@ Rezwan: Nope. I guess you can't. I needed to talk to someone more professionally experienced. I needed to talk to someone who could show me a more mature and professional pathway. Talked to my brother, though. I guess it helped for the time being. :)
ReplyDelete@ Sanket: Yep. True. It's a continuous process. I hope I can make it. Wish me luck! :)
ReplyDelete@ Ehsan bhaiya: You spoke of reality! we only find what we want to see, rest we just ignore
ReplyDeleteMay be I already know the answer. I just need to figure it out within myself by capturing the signs that I want to see. You know, self assurance! :)
all the best wishes !!!
ReplyDelete@ Sanket: Thanks! :)
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